Ok update time.
I got streaming DLNA to work on my BDP-S370 from my computer. I have to remove the windows firewall, before I removed it the player would give me the same issues as the prime was having. So there is something in the prime that is not allowing the bluray player to access it.
Here are some pictures off the error codes. One with the LIVE DMS and the other on the standard prime tuner which i know is not what I need but figured I would show that code as well.
LIVE DMS (same error code on windows before I removed the firewall.

Prime Tuner (i know this will not work but you can see its looking for dlna)
